Ua hele aku ka pilina o ka launa ma kahi mea i hoʻowahāwahāʻia i nā makahiki i hala aku nei, i kahiʻoihana papahana e pili ana i ka pizza. Loaʻa nā papahana pūnaewele e mālama nei i kekahi mau mea niko e like me keʻano farmersonly.com a no kaʻoi aku o nā mega pūnaewele nui i kūkuluʻia e like me match.com, eharmony, a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
Ke aloha a hoʻowahāwahā paha, eʻike ana kaʻikepili pūnaewele i ka mana e hiki ai ke noho pū me mākou no kekahi manawa. Ua kamaʻilio mua mākou e pili ana i kekahi mau'ōlelo no ka loaʻaʻana o kahiʻike pilikino e pili ana ma ka pūnaewele i loko o kā mākouʻatikala: Nā Palekana no ka palekana a me ka maluhia .
Ma kēiaʻatikala, e hoʻomau mākou i ka nānā aku i nā leka uila pili i ka pūnaewele e ponoʻole e hōʻalo i kāu hulina no ka lā kūpono.
ʻAʻole ke kanaka eʻike ana i ke aloha
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, he nui nā mea hana ma waho o laila. Hoʻohana lākou i nā poʻe eʻimi nei i ke aloha a ho'āʻo e hoʻokuʻu iā lākou mai nā pūnaewele hui a hōʻea i nā pae hoʻolālā a me nāʻoihana'ē aʻe. Hiki i nā Scammers ke hoʻohana i nāʻenehana e like me bots e hana i kā lākou lepo lepo a he mea paʻakikī ia e haʻi aku i nā mea maoli mai nā mea lapuwale.
ʻO Red Flag # 1 -ʻAʻole lākou e pane i kāu mau nīnau
He nui nā papa hana e hoʻohana i nā bots, (nā papahana e pili ana i nā pilina kanaka) e ho'āʻo a hui pū i nā mea hoʻohana i nā wahi kipa a iʻole e hana i kekahi hana a ka poʻe scammers e makemake ai e hana (e like me ka hōʻikeʻana i kaʻike pilikino. ʻaʻole maikaʻi e hana (koe wale no paha kekahi o nā "chatterbots"ʻoi aku ka māmā).
Ke nīnauʻoe i kahi nīnau kumu, hiki paha iā ia ke hāʻawi i kāu pane pane. Hiki iā ia ke nānā i nā hua'ōlelo i kāu mau pane a ho'āʻo i ka leka iāʻoe i kahi mea kūpono, akā,ʻaʻole ia he pane pololei. Ināʻaʻohe paha e pane pololei i kāu mau nīnau, e ho'āʻo e nīnau iā lākou (aʻo ia paha) i kekahi mea kūpono loa eʻike inā hoʻi mai me kekahi pane'ē aʻe.
Na kēia e kōkua iāʻoe e noʻonoʻo inā e launa anaʻoe i kahi pōkole a scammer paha i makemakeʻole e hoʻokau i ka hana e pono ai ke hoʻomau i kahi kamaʻilio maʻamau.
Red Flag # 2 - Ke makemake nei lākou e hoʻoneʻe iāʻoe E pili ana i kahi kūlana pili ma kahi wikiwiki
ʻO ka pahuhopu o scammer ke kiʻiʻana iāʻoe e haʻalele i ka pūnaewele papahana a me ko lākou pūnaewele i hiki iā lākou ke lawe i nā mea a lākou e makemake mai nei iāʻoe, inā pahaʻo kāuʻike kāleka kāleka, kāuʻike pilikino, a iʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe. E manaʻo iā lākou e ho'āʻo e kuhikuhi iāʻoe i kahi pūnaewele, helu kelepona, a iʻole ka leka uila o kā lākou koho. E ho'āʻo pinepine lākou e hana i kēia ma nā memo mua 5 aiʻole.
Hiki paha iā lākou ke hoʻolimalima i kahi manawa e ho'āʻo ai e kūkulu i kahi pilina meʻoe, akā i ka hopena, e hōʻike lākou i ko lākou mauʻano pono a ho'āʻo e hoʻopau i kēia maʻamau ma o ka hoʻowalewaleʻana iāʻoe e kaomi i kahi loulou aiʻole e kākoʻo iā lākou. ʻAʻole kēia e'ōlelo i nā mea a pau e ho'āʻo nei e hāʻawi iāʻoe i kā lākou helu kelepona pololei mai ka'ōpala he scammer, akā he hae ulaulaʻole ia a ponoʻoe e nānā iāʻoe e nānā i nā hōʻailona'ē aʻe.
Red Flag # 3 - Ke makemake nei lākou eʻike i kou wahi
Inā he scammer paha a iʻole paha i kekahi mau mea'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole lākou e noi aku i kāu pane ma mua. Hiki iā ia ke lilo i hapa o ka scam scishing aiʻole kekahi meaʻoi aku kaʻino. Inā hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kekahi, ponoʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i kāu wahi. Keʻaeʻoe e hālāwai me nā wahi lehulehu o ka lehulehu me ka nui o nā poʻe eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no ka hālāwaiʻana me kekahi mea hou. E hōʻike mau i kou hoa i ka hopena o kāu mau hoʻolālā a inā lākou e hoʻololi.
Red Flag # 4 - Ke kiʻi wikiwiki iā lākou iho
Inā hoʻomaka lākou e noi i nā nīnau pilikino pili ponoʻole e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili, hiki iā lākou ke ho'āʻo e paʻi iāʻoe no kaʻike pilikino e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻohana no ka manaʻo hanahue. Mai hāʻawi i kāu lā hānau i nā malihini. ʻO ia kekahi o nāʻike nui o kaʻike e pono ai lākou e hoʻokumu i kahi helu ma kou inoa.
Red Flag # 5 - Ko lākou Profile ke nānā nei i kahi liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi a iʻole Generic
Inā palupalu ka pilina pili pilina a heʻuʻuku liʻiliʻi kekahi mea'ē aʻe ma mua o kahi'ōlelo maʻamau e like me ka cliche "makemake au eʻakaʻaka" a laila paha he hae haeʻula e hoʻohana wale paha lākou i kaʻikeʻike leka i kaʻikeʻana i kaʻike scam. E nānā i kēia mau'ōlelo ma ka pehea e koho ai i kahi noi pili i ka manaʻo pilikino, e like me nā'ōlelo likeʻole e pili ana i kēiaʻano.